I hear this all the time.
Thinking (s)he’ll just fall out the sky and into your laps while you’re sitting at home on a Saturday night. Or that you’ll bump into each other at work, while you’re out with the girls or buying your weekly groceries i.e all naturally and seamlessly while you're going about your everyday life
It’s a nice thought and one I used to think myself. Unfortunately it’s nothing more than whimsical thinking. It rarely happens that way. It didn’t happen in that way for me and it hasn’t happened for a lot of people either.
Maybe we think we’re too special or too darn hot to have to ‘work’ at meeting someone. The reality is if you want something only you can make it happen.
If you don't want to 'work' at meeting someone then be prepared to stay single. Tough but true.
With the utmost respect. Quit feeling sorry for yourself. Get yourself out there. Date until you can date no more. And I guarantee he/she will definitely come along.