Recently a client posed the above question. What’s the hardest Rule she asked.
My initial reaction was to say Rule #15 Long Distance Relationships Part II. Applying the Rules to long distance relationships are hard. You have to work on yourself not to call and work even harder to end the call after 15 - 20 minutes. Inevitably the distance also means a bigger time lapse between each subsequent date. Rather than having to wait a few days for the next date. You have to wait weeks.
However after reflection, The Rules like everything - are easy once you know how. Since becoming a Rules coach I’m beginning to think it’s not The Rules that are hard.
The hard bit is the patience, self control, faith and restraint that we have to cultivate within ourselves in order to apply The Rules.
As always our work is continually with ourselves.