28 October 2014

Live on the radio this Thursday





Happy Tuesday dear readers.

This Thursday once again I'm live via the BBC Asian Network on the Noreen Khan radio show.  This Thursday is part one in a series of three shows.  The producers want to trial a live Q&A format.

This week we're talking The Rules, how they apply to different cultures together with practical dating tips.

Tune in BBC Asian Network this Thursday. Click this listen for how to listen.

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23 October 2014

Light candles and get the dusters out!!!





Goddess Lakshmi heading to my place because it's clean!


Happy Diwali to everyone celebrating today!

Get cleaning, light candles, open your doors and  windows to allow prosperity into your home!

Why I hear you ask?

Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth, is the main event on Diwali. It is a popular belief that the Goddess Lakshmi likes cleanliness, and she will visit the cleanest house first. This is also the reason why the broom is worshipped on this day. I didn't know this by the way, we have two brooms in the shed, will go fish them out after I've posted this live. I also don't know how you worship a broom. I'll have to ask my Mother in Law.

Lamps are lit in the evening to welcome the goddess. They are believed to light up Her path.  Thankfully I cleaned our place this morning.  Now I need to find some candles, I'm pretty sure we have some somewhere. 

Really hope Lakshmi picks my place first! It's clean and as soon as it gets dark I'm going to cheat a little by turning on the patio lights.... well.. .....all's fair in prosperity and wealth.

Happy Diwali everyone!

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17 October 2014

What to wear on a first date.





Hello Everyone

Lisa a Personal Stylist gives her tips on what to wear on a first date.  Here's what she says.

On your first date you want to look good and feel confident says Lisa at Stylebug Personal Fashion Stylists.

She suggests wearing an outfit that gives the impression that you haven’t tried too hard and spent hours getting ready, but you still look fantastic.  

You don’t want to overdress or wear anything to over revealing on this occasion, you can save that for a later date. Your date will make a first impression about you very quickly before you even open your mouth.

It is important that you feel comfortable in what you are wearing.  Wear colours that compliment your natural colouring to brighten your eyes and lift your face.

Put on your favourite perfume but don’t overdo it.  If you have an over powering personality wear a more subtle perfume.  When putting perfume on dab a little on your wrists, behind your ears, on your neck, and in your cleavage. Following that rule should help you avoid being overwhelming with your perfume, while still smelling nice.

It is important to make sure that you emphasize the good parts of your body. If you have long slim legs then skinny jeans with a lovely pair of ankle boots would be great. For those with shorter legs always wear same dark coloured shoe/boot with a heel to elongate your legs.

If you have a defined waist show it off by pulling in baggy tops with a belt. Big boobs look great with V neck tops...small boobs wear a higher neck line.

For more styling advice please visiwww.stylebug.co.uk

Items in the picture include - Top: Whistles  Jeans:7 All Mankind  Boots: Bertie  Bag: LineaI

14 October 2014

Smart answers to stupid dating questions





Hello everyone, in this weeks short  video I'm covering off how to answer when your date asks

"What are you looking for?"

The answers are taken from my new book titled "Why Men Ask Dumb Dating Questions" which is available to download via amazon here.

13 October 2014

Why you MUST keep going!


It's not over until its over!!

Anyway your future 'happily ever after' depends on your ability to keep going.

I know it's not long until Christmas and a New Year.  Ignore men who don't call you back. Also ignore men who don't ask for dates.  Focus on the men who want to be with you.   Everyone else is pretty much a next!

You gotta be in it to win it.




2 October 2014

How to answer when your date asks "do you want children?"




Hello everyone, in this weeks short  video we are looking at how to answer when your dates asks "do you want children?"

The video is approx 1 minute  and 30 seconds long.  The feedback from last weeks video was great and I hope you like this video too.  All the answers are taken from my book titled "Why Men Ask Dumb Dating Questions" which is available via amazon here.

To find out more or to book a consultation please visit indiakang.com

30 September 2014

It's the final quarter of 2014!!


Dress up and go to where the men are.

Yes it's nearly the final quarter of 2014 with only 85 days left until Christmas - which means winter and a new year are fast approaching.
If you're single and searching re-read my post about taking action.  

On Thursday I'll be posting another video 'showing' how to answer when your date asks "do you want children?"  Do keep an eye on the blog or via my facebook page.

In the meantime take as many social actions as possible to meet men, ignore the naysayers and keep the faith.

To find out more or to book a private consultation please visit indiakang.com