31 July 2014

It's all about taking ACTION





Take lots and lots and lots of ACTION to meet men.

The more action you take, the more likely you are to meet suitable men.  When the going gets tough. And it will get tough.  It's gets tough regularly, many times you'll feel like giving up.  In these instances take MORE not LESS action to meet men.

As I tell my clients and as I wrote in my new e-book "Why Men Ask Dumb Dating Questions" dating does end. It's a means to an end.

Tomorrow is the start of a new month.  If you're reading this post today; go grab a piece of paper and work out what actions you can take to meet men.

Tip- there will always always be something more you can do.

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28 July 2014

You don't have to CHASE...when you know you are a CATCH






Saw the above on Twitter and thought I'd share with you too.

Great reminder to focus on yourself, get out there and see who comes your way.

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25 July 2014

Happy deazone!!

Whoop whoop it's here again.

Have fun, switch off and go recuperate!

Remember no dates means you disappear.

Reminder - deadzone starts today 6pm and ends Sunday 6pm.

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23 July 2014

Why you should get a dating phone.






Dating phone definition:  A separate phone which you use as your dating phone only.  A little like having a phone for work and another for personal use.  Same concept!

Advantages 
  • You keep this second phone completely separate from your personal day to day phone.  The two shall never entwine
  • Gives you added security and safety
  • You give this number out freely and widely providing HE asks.
  • You can safely turn this phone OFF every evening and during the dead zone -  which incidentally makes it easier to stick to The Rules.  
  • You only need a cheap handset either on a low monthly contract or buy a 'pay as you go' package
  • If you already have a handset lying around at home - buy a 'pay as you go'  SIM card. Evener more cost effective
  • The dating phone doesn't need any funky multimedia and you don't necessarily need any data.  You only need the ability to make/take calls and texts. One way to avoid the intrusion of chat applications! They can't send you chat messages if you don't have the chat apps installed. If you don't mind chat apps then by all means download the apps
  • Keeps unwanted suitors at bay esp if you're happily exclusive or engaged. They can't contact you if your dating phone is deactivated or no longer in use!  

Things to consider

  • You have to carry your dating phone with you unless of course it's dead zone in which case turn if off and leave it at home
  • Yes it's a hassle but the positives outweigh the negatives.

Actions
  • Go get a dating phone today!!

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21 July 2014

Why Men Fight Dirty

Great little video by Lauren Gray talking about why men fight dirty.

Men and women certainly are wired differently.

Check it out here.  

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15 July 2014

Back from the States.



With my husband's US family


Hello everyone, sorry I haven't posted in awhile. We were away.  We went to the States for a little over two weeks.  It was my husband's idea, he planned our trip and he did a super job.

We landed back in the UK about four hours ago. We kept the trip quiet (apart from close family, friends and of course my amazing clients) because we didn't fancy coming back to a burgled home.  Thankfully our place is all safe and sound and thanks to my neighbour my plants are watered and still alive.

It was a great trip.  The weather was scorching.  My husband's family treated us like kings. I'll write more over the course of this week.

In the meantime here's an excerpt of a conversation between my husband and I.  We were sat in San Fran airport, we were talking about a bunch of random stuff.  I can't remember the exact question I asked but here's what he said:

"When a man is looking for a wife, he's looking for the whole package. He wants a woman who 'adds' and is an asset to his life. He wants a woman who knows how to behave in front of his family and friends.  If you're good looking but hard work, he'll stay with you while it's convenient but ultimately he'll move on when a new opportunity presents itself.  Men want easy lives.  A hot girl with a great attitude can pretty much have any guy she wants. It doesn't matter if your figure is perfect or not. If you look after yourself and you're easy to be with you'll get a decent guy.  A bad attitude drives men away.  If men are looking after you and paying please drop the attitude. Some girls are attracted to 'bad boy' types.  Smart clever girls pick decent men."

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3 July 2014

What does every 'no' mean?

Every NO brings you one step closer to a YES.

Of course I know you already know this my dearest readers.  

Thought I'd remind you!

Never ever give up and keep on going.

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